Me, as A
Chinese Cultural Society Member!

Special thanks to Chinese Cultural Society members 

in providing me photos, supports and sources 

to accomplish my Interpersonal Communication blog assignment.

The beginning of year of Dragon 2012

Recently, I found out that my relationship with 2011/12 Chinese Cultural Society (CCS) members is based on Knapp’s stages of relational development - the process by which relationships grow. The five stages are initiating, experimenting, intensifying, integrating and bonding.

CCS members and I met in the Recruitment Drive in 2011. For me, they are energetic, enthusiastic and dare to take risk.

Later, we attended the CCS meeting. We played lots of ice-breaking games together and on the spot, we exchanged our superficial personal information, such as what courses we are doing, where are our hometowns and what activities we like.

However, our friendships began to intensify right after the Chinese New Year (CNY) celebration in SEGi.

CCS members that contributed to the CNY Celebration in SEGi

During the CNY event preparation, we delegated the task equally and accomplished it with sweats and laughs together.

Making fishs and seashells from a huge bunch of Ang Pau-s

Decorating the lobby of the Dome

Task completed

         The CNY event is a huge success for CCS members! We loved it. We enjoyed it. And we strived for it.

Finally, time for lunch~

        Then, we did a lot of activities as a group. For instance, we often went for dinner, tasted desserts at Snowflakes, and watched movies in One Utama shopping center together. 

Strolling from Sunway Giza to SEGi U.C after dinner

How many types of Snowflakes desserts you can recognize here?

            Moreover, the happiest experience we had together was when we went to Taman Pertanian Malaysia and Klang last Sunday.

What an awkward location for photography session >o<

           Since the majority of the members are boys, I got used to talk to them straightforwardly rather than beating around the bush and gaining nothing in return.

          Meanwhile, I no longer shy away from talking to men. The experiences with CCS boys have increased my confidence and healed my phobia about men as I do not know what a man’s mindset is like, as well as how to deal with men previously.

Apparently, they triggered my violent side :p

            I have a strong bonding with CCS members now and I hope that we can still keep in touch even after we have graduated from SEGi UC.

Close my eyes and make a wish - Frienship Forever!!!

With love,

Chia Chee, Lee